FOR HUSBANDS WHO STILL CHOOSE HER
The Intention is there.
Life just gets in the way.
You think about doing something thoughtful. Planning the date. Remembering the thing she mentioned. Surprising her just because.
Then work gets busy. The kids need something. The week gets away from you.
And that thing you meant to do? It gets pushed to tomorrow.
Still Pursuing™ is the behind-the-scenes support for remembering what matters, planning ahead and following through so the woman you chose continues to feel chosen. chosen.
You've heard her say something like this
Her words.
Still with you.
"I just want to feel like you actually thought about me."
"I'm not asking for a lot. I just want to feel like I'm still on your mind."
"It would have been nice if you'd remembered."
"I know you love me. I just don't always feel it."
You heard her.
You just didn't know what to do with it.
Still Pursuing™ is built for exactly that moment when you know something matters but you don't have the support, the memory, or the plan to act on it the way you want to.
The support behind the scenes
We don’t pursue your wife for you.
We make it easier for you to pursue her.
We get to know her.
We remember what you share.
We help you think ahead.
You show up. You get the credit.
She mentions a restaurant.
Send it to us. Three months from now, you don't have to remember what it was. We do.
An important date is coming.
We help you think before the date becomes urgent — with ideas shaped around what she actually enjoys.
You want to do something thoughtful.
You don't have to start from a blank screen. We help you think of something that feels like her.
Life gets full.
We help keep the things that matter from disappearing underneath everything else you're carrying.
How it works
We do the thinking.
You do the pursuing.
Tell us about her once. Keep sharing what you learn along the way. We'll help you remember the details, think ahead, and turn what you know about her into thoughtful action.
01
We get to know her.
Through Know Her™ onboarding, we begin learning what she loves, important dates, her preferences and the little details worth remembering.
02
We remember with you.
The restaurant she mentioned. Her favourite things. Something she'd love to do. Keep sharing details with us as you learn them.
03
We help you act on it.
Through reminders, prompts and practical support, we help you turn intention into action.
04
You show up.
You decide what feels right. You make the gesture. You pursue her. We simply help you stay one step ahead.
Your quiet support system
What does Still Pursuing
actually do for you?
Think of us as the support behind the scenes - helping you notice, remember and follow through.
When she mentions something
"I'd love to try that place."
Text it to us while it's top of mind. We'll help you hold onto the detail so it doesn't disappear into a busy week.
We support you to remember.
When a date is coming
Her birthday is three months away.
We help you start thinking while you still
have time, not when you're suddenly
three days out.
We support you to stay ahead.
When you want to plan something
"Where should I take her?"
We help with date and experience ideas based on her preferences, not a generic list of things couples "should" do.
We support you to make it personal.
When she's had a hard week
You want her to know you noticed.
We help you think through a simple, thoughtful way to show her that you
see her and care.
We support you to follow through.
When you want deeper connection
You want better conversation.
We give you thoughtful prompts and questions that help create meaningful moments of real connection.
We support you stay connected.
When prayer MATTERS TO YOU
You want to pray for her.
We give you thoughtful prompts to help you pray specifially for your wife and marriage.
We support you to be intentional.
Still Pursuing™ is the quiet support behind the husband you already want to be.
Ready to keep choosing her
Choose how Still Pursuing supports you.
From staying intentional to staying one step ahead, select the support you need.
The more you share, the more we know
Because pursuing her starts with knowing her.
Your wife is always growing, changing, discovering new things and telling you what matters to her.
Still Pursuing™ gives you a place to hold onto those details, the things she mentions, what she's excited about, the week she's having, something she wants to try, a goal she's working toward and the little things you notice along the way.
You keep learning her. We help you remember. As you share, what she says, loves, wants and experiences, her profile grows giving us more context to support you in pursuing her.
Her coffee order.
The restaurant she mentioned once.
The kind of date she actually enjoys.
The thing she's been wanting to try.
The week she's been having.
The small details that make a gesture feel like
her.
The small details that make a gesture feel like her.
Why a membership?
Because pursuing her isn't a once-a-year occasion.
Birthdays matter. Anniversaries matter. But so does an ordinary Wednesday.
As life changes, she mentions new things and important moments come up. Still Pursuing™ stays with you throughout the year helping you remember what matters and recognize opportunities to pursue her in real time.
Choose your level of support
Every husband who joins
is still pursuing.
Start where you are. Choose the level of support that helps you stay intentional, stay ahead, or have the details
handled with you.
Keep Me Intentional
For the husband who wants help staying intentional, remembering what matters, and acting on what he knows about her.
- ✓ Know Her™ onboarding
- ✓ Personalized Know Her™ Profile
- ✓ Text us updates anythime - keep us in the loop as you notice and learn more about her
- ✓ Personalized prompts & ideas based on what we know about her
- ✓ Important date reminders for birthdays, anniversaries and meaningful dates
- ✓ Birthday and anniversary support with ideas personalized to her
- ✓ Ongoing profile updates as preferences and seasons change
Help Me Stay Ahead
For the husband who wants more personalized support to think ahead, anticipate meaningful moments, and know what to do next.
- ✓ Everything in Pursue Essential
- ✓ Monthly Persuit Plan™ personalized to your wife
- ✓ Monthly Profile review - what you've shared, what changed, and what's coming up
- ✓ More tailored recommendations based on her preferences, your updates, and your current season
- ✓ Proactive milestone and occasion planning
- ✓ Priority support when something comes up and you need an idea for her
Help Me Bring it to Life
For the husband who wants higher touch support to bring meaningful moments to life.
- ✓ Everything in Pursue Plus
- ✓ Four personalized experiences planned each year thoughtfully designed around your wife and what matters to her
- ✓ Experience research & planning - from the idea to the details that make it personal
- ✓ Higher-touch personalization based on what we're continually learning about her
- ✓ Priority planning for meaningful moments you don't want to leave to the last minute
Dining, gifts, tickets, travel and other experience costs are not included.
JOIN THE WAITLIST
Every membership begins with Know Her™ and becomes more personalized as you share what matters to her.
Questions you might have
Questions?
We've got answers.
Why would I pay for this instead of just looking up date ideas?
Because you don't need another list of date ideas. You need support that actually knows her. Still Pursuing gets to know your wife, what she enjoys, what matters to her, the things she mentions and the details you share along the way. We help you remember those things, think ahead and turn what you already know about her into meaningful ways to keep pursuing her. It’s not about giving you more ideas. It’s about making it easier to stay intentional with the woman you chose.
Is this marriage counselling?
No. Still Pursuing™ isn't counselling or therapy. We provide practical, personalized support that helps you stay intentional, remember what matters to your wife and continue pursuing her in the everyday moments of marriage.
If you’re looking for professional support for your marriage, we encourage you to connect with a qualified counsellor or therapist.
Will my wife know I'm working with you?
That’s up to you. Our support is designed to stay in the background. You remain the one noticing, choosing and pursuing your wife. There’s no need to announce that you’re working with us, and we never encourage dishonesty or hiding it if she asks. You’re the one pursuing her. We simply make it easier to stay intentional along the way.
What if I'm already an intentional husband?
That’s exactly who Still Pursuing™ is for. This isn’t about fixing your marriage or teaching you how to love your wife. It’s about helping you continue doing what already matters to you...noticing her, choosing her and pursuing her, even when life gets busy. We make it easier to stay intentional.
How personalized is this?
Every Still Pursuing™ membership is built around your wife, not a generic idea of what women want. We use what you share with us, including her preferences, interests, meaningful dates, things she mentions and the little details you notice along the way. The level of personalization and hands-on support varies by membership, with additional support available as you move from Essential to Plus and, eventually, Concierge.
What happens after I join?
Once you choose your membership, you'll begin with Know Her™ onboarding. That’s where we start getting to know your wife, what matters to her, what she enjoys, the important dates and the details you already know. From there, you can keep sharing things as you notice and learn more about her, so your support continues to reflect who she is. What happens next will depend on your membership and the level of support you've chosen.
How much time does this actually take?
Still Pursuing™ is designed to fit into your life, not become another thing on your to-do list. Share what you notice when it comes up, and we help you remember, think ahead and stay intentional. The goal is simple: less time figuring out what to do and more opportunity to focus on her.
Can I cancel my membership?
Yes. Monthly memberships can be cancelled at any time before your next billing date, and you’ll continue to have access through the end of your current billing period. Annual memberships are paid upfront for the year and can be cancelled before your renewal date to prevent renewal. Your billing and renewal details will always be clear at checkout.
Is Still Pursuing faith-based?
Our values are rooted in Christian faith, and those values shape how we serve with love, integrity, intentionality and respect for marriage.
You don't have to share our faith to be part of Still Pursuing™. We welcome husbands who want to be intentional about loving and pursuing their wives, while remaining true to the values at the heart of who we are.
Why Still Pursuing Exists
Because intention can get lost in the busyness of life.
Still Pursuing™ was created after seeing the same thing again and again: women wanting to feel seen, known and intentionally loved and men who genuinely wanted to show up for their wives, but didn't always have the time, ideas or systems to follow through consistently.
The love wasn't necessarily missing. The support around the intention was.
That's why Still Pursuing™ exists: to make it easier for husbands to remember what matters, stay intentional and continue pursuing the woman they chose.
One choice. Every day. A lifetime together.
She's still worth pursuing.
You chose her then. Keep choosing her now. We'll support you along the way.
STILL PURSUING™
Supporting husbands in choosing their wives every single day.
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